Change is something akin to a washing machine; but mixes dirt along with the good clothes....
Nobody likes change... Everyone deep down is happy the way the things were doing...
Damn, why are people so complacent and happy with constant routines and things..... I would kill myself to do a routine for a sustained period of time.. (of course except sleeping, breathing and eating.... got to do those chores anyways)
Hate seeing people in misery, when we all know they can lift themselves upto a better life... (But darn, its too hard for them... )
People have a general tendency (including mine) to bullshit themselves into believing stuff that their mediocre boring life serves some purpose.... (finding meaning in mundane existence; which is pretty boring)
There are only two great powers in this world which can help people to accept and notice change: FEAR and RESPECT....
Fear works instantaneously...(don't want to remind dear old Hitler about it), but is short lived.. (and if you are using fear... especially goes to multitude levels of bosses.... fear results into rebellion cause human spirit can't be caged for long... Hence, whoever is a terrible boss out there.. stop oppressing your juniors)
Respect on the other hand works miraculously... its very difficult to get and very easy to lose (especially if you are careless... like sometimes I am) But respect once earned, stays for a lifetime and you will revere and idolize that persons... (for me that is myself). Still millions worship Mahatma Gandhi and will continue doing so for his great non violence deeds... ( but on a personal note: instead of waiting for so long like him; I would have preferred violence to get that freedom... but that's just me)
Sometimes change is like a big washing machine except working in reverse; dirtying the clothes you worked so hard to wash - going through hardships once again....
But one thing people don't realize is that hardships are what makes a man into something more than a man.... not that kind of hardship which can be routinized... but those kinds through which you gain more knowledge about the workings between humans and ultimately with the universe.... (Hope to achieve these kinds of dynamics myself... but oh boy sure it ain't gonna happen soon)
Accepting change is one of the most difficult jobs you do in your life.. whether it is your education, your passion, friends, career, soul-mate... list goes on.... But once you accept the change, the decisions that need to be made become awfully clear cut in your head so as to work upon them into "Actions".
Actions are a different set altogether... requiring dedication on your part to make the impossible possible....
Change is easier by embracing it and I hope we can make our lives better with it.....
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